Trust & collaboration · Skill lab
Leading Useful One-to-Ones
A useful one-to-one gives the other person space to think and still ends with clarity. Practice balancing progress, obstacles and development without turning the conversation into a status interrogation.
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A practical place
to begin.
Create room for the conversation the person needs
A manager's one-to-one should make space for the team member's priorities as well as necessary work updates. This Skill Lab explores how to open the discussion, listen for an issue beneath the first answer and close with clear commitments. It helps distinguish a useful conversation from a meeting that happens only because it is scheduled.
In an illustrative exercise, a colleague says everything is fine but repeatedly mentions a difficult handoff. Prepare a question that invites them to explain the situation without forcing a particular interpretation. Explore whether they need a decision, practical support or time to think through an option.
Make the follow-through visible
Summarize what was agreed, including any action you own as the manager. Check that the person understands the same next step and knows when an unresolved question will be revisited. Review whether the conversation gave them a useful opportunity to raise what mattered. Bring a typical management situation with personal details removed. The focus is attentive, practical discussion; it does not assume every one-to-one should cover the same topics or become a substitute for addressing an urgent issue when it arises.
Topics to explore
Your learning focus.
01Open the conversation
Prepare questions that let the team member identify what most needs attention.
02Close with understanding
Summarize decisions and support commitments, then check that both people share the same next step.
Start where you are
Who it’s for.
Managers holding regular one-to-ones with team members
Bring a workplace situation you want to approach differently. We can discuss your experience, priorities and the support that would be useful before agreeing on delivery.
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